Thread:HYZX/@comment-24382776-20140223181347/@comment-24382776-20140302005635

Point 1- By coldly, i mean he didn't even smile or TRY to touch her and the tone of his voice was serious and dry, like i don't know if you get me but i feel like he could've been kinda warmer or sweeter and yes, Elsa obviously didn't want to touch them but then again, why? Because of them, by basically locking your child in her room and giving her gloves, implying her hands are dangerous, you're telling her that she can harm if she touches anything, Elsa didn't want to hurt her parents but i feel like the king or the queen could/should have tried to step closer to Elsa or hug her and if she stepped back, that was it but they didn't and that really hurts me.

2- I never said Elsa thought they didn't love her, i said they did not make her feel that way, this point might be confusing but it's not the same in my opinion, i mean a child can know their parents love them but feel that indifference (?), i don't know if that's the correct word, i suck at explaining but i hope you get my point but i admit that after they died she stayed completely alone because they were probably the only humans she had contact with, the servants don't count and i bet there were probably only one or two who actually could see Elsa or get in her room for short periods of time.

3-Yeah, i mean obviously Elsa was involved since there was ice everywhere but Anna could've slipped and hit her head or something else and that wouldn't have been Elsa's fault but i also admit that maybe "Elsa, what have you done?" was the first thing the king could think of after seeing his two daughters in that situation.

About the modern era parenting, i completely agree, the favoritism exists, IT DOES NOT MEAN that the parents love the younger child more, they simply put their needs above the eldest sibling's because they're more vulnerable or just because they're younger and the eldest sibling is expected to protect the younger and to be strong just so the younger doesn't have to be, as the eldest sibling of three, i can tell you this happens all the time, my mom loves the three of us equally but i'm expected to "sacrifice" myself for my two brothers, easy example: Let's say there are two slices of pizza, maybe i'm hungry but since there isn't anything else, i obviously will let my two younger brothers eat them, it has to be like that and i totally understand, as the eldest sibling i worry about them and put their needs before mine and so do my parents, yet that doesn't mean they love me less.

That's the situation with Anna and Elsa's parents, they put Elsa away just so Anna is safe, why didn't they put Anna in the room instead and let Elsa practice her powers all around the castle? That would have protected Anna from Elsa's powers too but they didn't, why? Because Elsa was older and expected to understand and to sacrifice herself for her sister, I don't think Elsa was angry with her parents or Anna for that, though, i think she understood but that doesn't mean she didn't suffer.

I know it sounds like i hate their parents or something but i actually don't, i like their parents and i think they loved them both equally but as it's been said, they did not make the right choices.