Look, making such a fuss about it is not worth crying for. Don't think of us as bad people or making this stuff up just to upset you, its how Wikia websites work and we are all here to give users like yourself guidance and support for your further time here.
I can understand this is all new to you and hard but you will adjust and in time you will learn to accept the way things are done and use what you have learnt to build, protect and help future users yet to come. You will also gain a lot more than just badges, loyalty, trust and most of all friendships.
I give you my best hope for the future.